Pushing the boundaries of appropriateness
Posted by: heath in About Heath, Awareness, Blogging, MedicalIs it appropriate for me to talk about having a bowel movement that happened so quickly that it created a vacuum in my intestinal tract?
What if I mention the yellow pus that squirted out from my second toe because of an ingrown toenail?
Is there a boundary of appropriate content for ones personal blog? Perhaps…perhaps not. These are conversations that I am able to have with my partner and close friends…one topic is normal biological function, one is only gross in that the pus is a nasty yellow colour - but again a normal bodily function to heal an infection.
And admit it - that first one either made you gasp or burst out laughing…and gasping increases oxygen flow and laughing is heart healthy, so that makes this blog medically sound.
But seriously…I CAN talk about whatever I want, but SHOULD I. Do you really want to hear about bodily functions/infections? The answer is likely, no.
About a year ago I wrote a post called You Can’t Do That On Blogs. In that post I talked about slander, copyright, libel, and using unreferenced images or those not in the public domain.
But even with those “restrictions”, you can still pretty much blog about any topic that you want. You can talk about technology, fashion, business, pets, religion, hobbies, politics, movies, moral issues, whatever - because it’s your personal public blog - and a lot of what you talk about is covered under your Freedom of Speech.
So while I have the freedom to do it, again, it might not be in my best interest to do so. I might lose readers that I so cherish because they don’t want to hear about the latest secretion from my toe. On the flip side, I might gain readers who like to hear about medical oddities. Do I want both kinds of readers, sure, but which do I want more?
One has to be careful not to alienate people who actively help carry on the conversation, because that’s really what blogs are about - creating conversation, sharing ideas, adding value to readers. And I, like all writers, often have trouble coming up with a topic to write about. There are many times when I vacillate on whether I want to keep blogging, and then a new topic pops into my mind during a conversation and voila, you get another post.
As long as you all keep coming back and keep commenting, I’ll keep coming up with volumes of wit and sarcasm to keep you entertained.
And no more posts about BM’s or pus. I promise. For now.





July 14th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
Let me start with the pic. I wasn’t sure at first what it was of. I though it might be a way of showing your butt hole during scary little BM but there I found the irresistibly descriptive yellow puss and toe reference and realized thankfully those were not your fingers but your toes. Which leads me to another worry, why on Earth did your toes in any way shape or form appear to be your fingers??? I digress…
I believe this is YOUR website and YOUR blog and as such, I subscribed to it believing I would get to experience the REAL mind of Heath. Nothing filtered for my delicate senses or any other of the subscribing intellects out there. So say it LOUD and PROUD Heath! I am here with you in BM and toe puss!
July 18th, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Filter your secreting toes for me please.
July 29th, 2008 at 7:29 am
I didn’t think I had many boundaries until I read this post.
July 29th, 2008 at 9:09 am
I know, I know - it will never happen again.
Hopefully.